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Monday, April 02, 2007

 

DOUBLETAKE
By Eric F. Mallonga
Suffering children

 
CANADIAN Chief Justice Beverly Mclachlin was conferred last year with honorary doctorates by Philippine universities. She once ruled that child-beating by parents and teachers is a necessary rite of passage in Canadian society. Her perspective invokes religious spirituality as the basis of her opinions, appearing to be anchored upon the principle of patria potestas (supreme parental authority), in total disregard of children’s human dignity.

If the chief justice reads more on historical narratives of the world’s most influential leaders regarding cruelties suffered at the hands of parents or teachers, perhaps she might become more sensitive to the sensibilities of children most affected by her peculiar view. British Prime Minister Tony Blair had been cane-flogged by his teacher, who even required his student to put down his pants for beatings at his buttocks to guarantee that pain would be maximized as wood strikes flesh. Not surprisingly, when Blair recently entered an exclusive men’s club, he became infuriated to find out his abusive teacher was inside the same room as he never forgot his teacher’s cruelty, which he experienced some four decades before. Former American President William Jefferson Clinton also complained about having been physically abused and beaten by his own alcoholic father, who eventually abandoned the Clinton family. In Britain, Putney Vicar Giles Fraser is haunted by memories of continuous beatings, like Tony Blair’s sordid experiences, which he received more than 30 years ago at prep school: that lonely wait outside the headmaster’s study; the cane, the slipper, the table tennis bat, even remembering his underpants filled with blood, seething with frustration when they also beat his brother.

Debbie Pearl from No Greater Joy Ministries, as Chief Justice Beverly McLachlin, shamelessly advocates that corporal punishment is divine: “We are told that in England it is a crime to spank children . . . Therefore Christians are not able to openly obey God in regard to biblical chastisement. They are in danger of having the state steal their children.” The Pearls justify corporal chastisement through biblical scripture: “He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes” (Proverbs 13:24). Chastening begins early: “For the under-one-year-old, a little, 10- to 12- inch long, willowy branch (stripped of any knots that might break the skin) about one-eighth inch diameter is sufficient,” writes Michael Pearl. With older children he advises: “After a short explanation about bad attitudes and the need to love, patiently and calmly apply the rod to his backside. Somehow, after 8 or 10 licks, the poison is transformed into gushing love and contentment. The world becomes a beautiful place. A brand-new child emerges. It makes an adult stare at the rod in wonder, trying to see what magic is contained therein.”

What makes such philosophies extremely perverse is that it is done in God’s name. Apparently, the “proper application of the rod is essential to the Christian worldview.” The image of God punishing His son with crucifixion for human salvation is an expression of tough love, distorting a religion of forgiveness and compassion into something dark and cruel. When such religious teachings penetrate into a philosophy of child rearing, such incitement to child abuse is terrifying. Spanking children is seen as punishment for rebellion just as divine anger is deemed to be provoked by original sin of human disobedience. In Ted Tripp’s monstrous bestseller Shepherding a Child’s Heart, even babies who struggle while having their nappy changed are deemed to be rebellious and need punishment. Lynn Paddock of North Carolina beat to death her four-year-old son Sean with a length of quarter-inch plumbing line—plastic tubing. Sean’s autopsy describes layers of bruises stretching from his bottom to his shoulder. Lynn Paddock turned to the Biblical practices of the Pearls and Tripps on parenting, to whom chastisement with plumbing line is “a real attention getter.”

What Jesus said about those who harm children comes inevitably to mind—it is better for them if a millstone is hanged around their necks, and drowned in the depths of the sea. Perhaps, this liturgical provision should already start being exercised, preferably commencing with chief justices and their subordinates, who show no sensitivities to children.

   
 

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