The Manila Times

Opinion

  Home  

  About Us  

  Contact Us 

  Subscribe     Advertise  
  Archives     Feedback  

  Register  

  Help  

  Top Stories

  Metro

  Business

  Regions

  Opinion

  World

  Life & Times

  Sports

  Motoring

  Tech Times

 
 
 

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

 

MEN & EVENTS
By Alito L. Malinao
A tale of two families


Whom the gods want to destroy, they first make crazy.

This could be the underlying theme of two reality shows, pitting members of prominent families against each other—complete with intrigues, suspense, pathos, falling in love, and failing out of love—with an international backdrop, that have regaled Filipino audiences for a while.

There have been so many dramatic twists in the plot—some bizarre, some incredulous—that made every episode intriguing. And yes, funny!

Lets zoom in on the first reality show: Bektas vs. Bektas. First it was first reported as just a simple family problem. Because of the distance and culture shock (Turkish millionaire Yilmaz Bektas, the husband, is a Muslim and lives in Istanbul while the wife, TV host Ruffa Gutierrez, is a Christian and lives in Manila), the two have decided to go on trial separation.

On several TV interviews, Ruffa, for a while, refused to tell why she was seeking a divorce. Was she a battered wife? Did Yilmaz hurt her? Were there irreconcilable differences? Yilmaz called her a “good actress.” She simply closed her eyes to keep the tears from falling. Then softly, she mumbled that she loves her husband very much.

But since then, there were several twists. Granting TV interviews from his mansion in Istanbul (ABS-CBN sent its Europe Bureau chief, Danny Buenafe, to Istanbul), Bektas charged that it was his mother-in-law, Annabelle Rama, who had wanted him and Ruffa to split. In another interview, this time with GMA 7, Bektas said there was really no need for divorce, because Ruffa was married to a certain Richard Daloia in Las Vegas in 1999 and that their subsequent grand wedding in Manila in 2003 was null and void from the beginning.

After that, Ruffa dropped a bombshell. She admitted that Bektas abused and tortured her, beating and kicking her at worst for 15 hours. “He would do everything to me. He cut my hair. He kicked me. He locked me up in a cabinet,” Ruffa narrated.

Asked why her husband would do that to her, she replied: “Wala. Sira ulo lang siya. [Nothing. He is just crazy].”

Now the Ruffa-Yilmaz drama has subsided a little but new complications could develop as the threat of Yilmaz to harm her and kidnap their two daughters remains. In another ABS-CBTV interview, Yilmaz, in broken English, has warned Ruffa not to use their two children in her TV appearances, adding that something could happen to her if she insists on doing it. Ruffa, who has resumed her TV and movie career, is now being provided with police escorts.

Now lets zoom in to another family feud: Crespo vs. Crespo or Jimenez vs. Jimenez.

The drama has also been sensationalized and the unfolding events no less shocking. The battle is now in the courts with both sides represented by high-profile lawyers: former solicitor general Frank Chavez for former Manila congressman Mark Jimenez, a.k.a. Mario Crespo, and Atty. Lorna Kapunan for Jimenez’s estranged partner, Caroline Castañeda-Jimenez.

Ms. Jimenez has filed charges of kidnapping and serious illegal detention with coercion against her husband after she was rescued by agents of the National Bureau of Investigation from a drug rehabilitation facility in Las Piñas City.

In her affidavit, Carol alleged that she was kept under horrible conditions while at the Silvercrest Rehabilitation Center. “I was locked up and kept incommunicado, treated worse than a convicted felon and was exposed to mental torture by Mark Jimenez. It is the greatest irony that my detention should come at the hands of a convicted felon like Mark Jimenez,” she narrated.

Mark Jimenez, who was described by former President Estrada as a corporate genius, made his millions while pursuing the American dream in the United States and the Caribbean. He insisted that Carol is a drug dependent and has to be confined in a facility, a charge that the latter has denied. Jimenez has filed estafa charges against Carol and some of his own children.

Ironically, some of Jimenez’s own children by his marriage to Aleli Pansacola, have sided with Carol, and called their father crazy. Is he or isn’t he?

We are still waiting for the denouement of these two telenovelas. Abangan.

malinaolito@yahoo.com

   
 

Phgifts

ofwgifts

philflora.gif

Manila Times Friends

 
Sponsored Links
 

Back To Top

 
 
 


Powered by: 
The Manila Times Web Admin.

  

Home | About Us | Contact | Subscribe | Advertise | Feedback | Archives | Help

Copyright (c) 2001 The Manila Times | Terms of Service
The Manila Times Publishing Corp. All rights reserved.

Hosted by: