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Tuesday, June 17, 2008

 

MISSION IMPOSSIBLE
By Marit Stinus-Remonde
The au pairs in Denmark

 
Denmark got its first democratic constitution on June 5, 1849. This is celebrated every year with cultural and political activities organized by local organizations. The activities are open to the public, a way of celebrating democracy and the Danish way of life. I was able to witness one such activity in the small town of Svogerslev.

The church council had organized the event together with the institution in charge of adult education. The brass band entertained, while this year’s speaker was brought from the nearby university. Henrik Jensen spoke about duty in a Danish society where citizens seem to know only their rights, not their duties. About 100 local residents attended.

Jensen traced the change in Danish society to the 1960s. During this decade, women started working outside their homes. The State took over responsibility for the welfare of children, the elderly and the sick. Gradually, people came to turn to the State rather than the family for their individual needs. The family evolved into a group of individuals not a pyramid wherein parents are at the top. Today’s parents are afraid to assert their authority over their children as they do not want to ruin their relationship as friends. Jensen’s research project, while far from completed, has led him to believe that future generations of Danes grow up without learning adequately about duty and responsibility.

The pillars of democracy are freedom, equality and solidarity. But Jensen believes that people have forgotten these pillars, or that they do not know the true meaning of the words. Freedom isn’t simply about us and what we want. Freedom is also about a truth that is bigger than ourselves, he explained. Western democracy was always built on a balance of duty and right. Duties, not rights, make up the cement that holds our society together, Jensen said. It made me think of the Philippine Supreme Court’s Writ of Amparo and Philip Alston. They insist that the rights of individuals and groups who shun no means, including violence and deception, to undermine and bring down the Philippine democratic state, must be upheld at all cost, that is, at the expense of our democratic society and its institutions.

A society cannot survive if its citizens only take but don’t give anything back.

Au pair girls from the Philippines know much about duty. Many slave for hours without end to be able to send money to their families in the Philippines, a long-time Filipino resident told me. These girls, officially about 1,700, are in Denmark illegally as far as Philippine authorities are concerned. The Danish embassy, however, grants visas. The girls typically end up paying P15,000 to 30,000 to Philippine immigration officials at the airport to be allowed to leave the Philippines .

The girls make P23,000 to P46,000 a month, and many take additional jobs in their free time in order to send home more money. There is a growing problem with pregnancies. Some are unwanted, but others are deliberate. The girls think they will be allowed to stay in Denmark if they get pregnant. But pregnant or not, they have to leave Denmark when their contracts end. A few are lucky—they end up getting married to Danes. This is the dream of many.

St. Anne’s Church is packed with young Filipinas. After mass they chat and exchange mobile phone numbers. There are thousands like them back home in the Philippines. They dream of a better life but are seldom equipped with the skills needed for the very different life in Denmark. Some are recruited on false promises—host families are told that their au pair is willing to do any kind of work even if au pair girls are obliged to do nothing but look after the host family’s young children. Some au pair girls are recruited on the false promise that they could earn as much as P100,000 a month. This has reportedly lured some well-educated and relatively well-paid girls to quit their jobs in the Philippines and become au pair girls. The recruiters are often former au pair girls.

About 100 years ago the Mexican revolutionaries fought for freedom and justice. They defined justice as respect for the freedom of others. We still have a long way to go to achieve this ideal.

   
 

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