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Thursday, June 26, 2008

 

FROM THE SIDELINES
By Alfredo G. Rosario
The ‘crab mentality’ in us

 
One of the cardinal Christian sins is envy, which is closely akin to ingratitude, another vile human trait. When a fellowman rises to a position of wealth and influence, not a few people will pull him down out of envy.

When someone does a heroic act, there will be faultfinders who will belittle the good deed. This is a common fault called “crab mentality” of Filipinos. We look down with disdain on glorious achievements by our fellowmen in whatever field—business, politics, academics or the arts.

People with an iconoclastic bent tend to attack the figure or reputation of those ascending to the top. They hate the success of others out of spite, ill will or jealousy.

We see this strain of human behavior in those who have deprecated the role of Sen. Loren Legarda in the release of ABS-CBN journalist Ces Drilon, her two cameramen and a Mindanao professor from nine days of captivity by members of the Abu Sayyaf kidnap gang.

They accused the senator of “writing the script” of the press conference on the release of Drilon and the other captives “to make her look like the hero.” They ascribed malicious motives to her role, saying she was “advancing her political interest” as a probable presidential candidate in the 2010 election.

Legarda took the criticisms with quiet dignity, consoling herself with the thought that she had done “what ought to be done at a time when Ces and her fellow victims were on the verge of accepting their fate of not seeing the world again.”

“What is most important is that the kidnap victims are now free,” she said, hoping they would be given justice for their most traumatic experience.

Legarda left her Senate duties when Ces and her ABS-CBN bosses, Maria Ressa and Chari Villa, sought her help in negotiating with the kidnappers for the victims’ release at the most crucial period of their captivity.

The senator has had enough experience in negotiating with rebels and outlaws for the safe release of their victims. She had done it for Arlene de la Cruz, another TV journalist; army Maj. Noel Buan; and five police and military officers—all kidnap victims of rebels and extremists—on different occasions a few years back.

She did these difficult tasks with tact and courage without thinking of reward, fame or glory.

“Ces told me that she can no longer take it, According to her, the kidnappers could have killed her. She said that if we did not act that day, she could have been raped, she could have been beheaded by her captors,” Legarda recalled her conversation with Drilon.

In those tense, dreadful moments, Ces could have been broken in spirit without the comforting words of Legarda, without her moral support. That Legarda was a “lifeline” to Ces was acknowledged by the reporter herself in a press conference and in interviews with the press.

Ces’ uncle, Ambassador to the United Kingdom Edgardo Espiritu, who admitted paying a P5 million raised by her niece’s family to the kidnappers, had paid tribute to Legarda for working hard to ensure Ces’ release. In a phone interview with Vic Lima, the envoy said their family “is more than grateful to Legarda” for helping them negotiate Ces’ safe release.

“She [Legarda] should be commended and thanked for, rather than criticized,” Espiritu said in Filipino.

Legarda said she is not disturbed by the innuendoes on her role. She lamented that while “armchair analysts” freely talked about the kidnapping after its resolution, they were “conspicuously absent at the height of the crisis.”

She said she negotiated for the release of Ces and her companions without discussing any ransom coming to their captors. She conceded that ransom might have been paid, but said there was none that she knew of while negotiating with the kidnappers.

She learned of the P5-million ransom paid by Ces’ family only when she heard Ambassador Espiritu’s revelation on radio.

It is time for us to change our attitudes and values. We cannot succeed as individuals or as a race if we cannot discard jealousy and hate over the triumph of our fellow citizens for a better life.

agr0324@yahoo.com

   
 

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