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Saturday, June 28, 2008

 

FEATURE

Grief-stricken groom waits 
for bride from sunken ferry


Jimmy Relativo’s voice was full of pain, as he sat on the shoreline just meters away from the sunken Philippine ferry that is now his pregnant fiancée’s tomb.

He has returned to the rocky coast of San Fernando on central Sibuyan Island hoping for word about the fate of his 22-year-old fiancée, Rosielyn Ligay, who was carrying his unborn child when MV Princess of the Stars went down at the height of Typhoon Frank on June 21.

He acknowledged that Rosielyn is now lying somewhere in the ocean, or more likely in the sunken ship, but said he is prepared to wait for her remains to be recovered.

“I don’t know if I can move on. It’s very painful but the search should go on. There are still many people inside the boat, not only my wife,” Relativo said.

The couple had boarded Princess of the Stars in Manila for the central island of Cebu on June 20 to tell Ligay’s father of their plans to get married and start a family.

They had taken the weekend off from their jobs in Manila, where Rosielyn works as a mall saleswoman and Relativo, 26, is a bakeshop employee. It appeared they had their whole lives ahead of them.

But then the typhoon changed direction and blew right into the path of Princess of the Stars.

“It was around nine in the morning [of June 21] when the ferry started to be battered by huge waves,” Relativo said between sobs. “We were holding each other tightly and Rosielyn told me to prepare. By noon, the ferry had listed to its side. The next thing we knew, we were sinking.”

Painstakingly, he recalled the last moment he saw the mother of his child.

“I thought we both jumped off the ferry but when I looked back she was still holding the rails on the side . . . terrified. I shouted at her, but she was hit by a wave. When I surfaced, she was gone,” Relativo said, holding back the tears.

He added that he did not want to abandon his fiancée but realized he needed to save himself. He said some people had managed to get on board a life raft, and they dragged him on it.

But his ordeal was far from over.

Clinging to life

“There were 30 of us in the raft being tossed about by the sea,” he said.

Some of those lucky enough to have made it onto lifeboats did not make it, succumbing to the massive waves.

But Relativo was one of the few lucky ones—of the nearly 850 passengers and crew on board the ferry, only 57 survivors have been found six days on. It is believed that most of the dead are trapped in the interior of the sunken ship.

Twenty-four hours after Princess of the Stars went down the raft, Relativo was one of those washed up on the coast of Malunay town of Quezon province, about 90 kilometers from the scene of the disaster.

Grieving father

Near Relativo, Alexander de la Cruz showed a picture of his 8-year-old daughter, Angeline, smiling as she sat beside her uncle, aunt and baby cousin Zayan.

De la Cruz had sent Angeline, the fourth in a brood of six, to live with relatives in the United States so she could have a better life. The family had returned for a vacation and to visit family in the central islands.

“Her last words to me were, ‘I love you, Papa,’” he recalled as he was consoled by relatives gathered around him.

With the search for bodies temporarily suspended after it was revealed the ferry was carrying a consignment of a deadly pesticide, de la Cruz said he will wait.

“I want to stay here until her body is found,” he added, as beyond him the bow of the upturned 23,000-ton vessel juts out from the now-tranquil sea.
--AFP

   

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