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Saturday, May 03, 2008

 

ABOVE ALL THINGS
By Ramon Mabutas Jr.
Battered wife, unfaithful husband

 
Query: I am a battered wife, facing a dark future. Three years ago, I got married to a jobless man I believed would make me happy. Initially, our marital union was fruitful—we produced a child. Our relationship, however, subsequently became worse when my husband succeeded in getting a job, because he also took a mistress—and he rarely came home.

I confronted him about his infidelity, which made him violent. He made a punching bag out of me whenever I asked him about his new schedule. Worse, he threatened to kill me. I sought the assistance of barangay officials in our community several months ago, but up to now, they have not taken action. What action can I take against our sleeping barangay leaders and my philandering violent husband?

Liza M.

Response

Your barangay leaders are irresponsible individuals. Republic Act No. 7160, the Local Government Code of 1991, among other things, provides:

(a) There is hereby created in each barangay a lupong tagapa­mayapa, hereinafter referred to as the lupon, composed of the punong barangay as chairman and 10 to 20 members. The lupon shall be constituted every three years in the manner provided herein;

(b) Any person actually residing or working in the bara­ngay, not otherwise expressly disqualified by law, and possessing integrity, impartiality, fairness, and reputation for probity, may be appointed a member of the lupon;

(c) A notice to constitute x x x include the names of proposed members who have expressed their willingess to serve, shall be prepared by the punong barangay within the first 15 days from the start of his term of office x x x posted in three conspicuous places in the barangay continuously for a period of not less than three weeks;

(d) The punong barangay, taking into consideration any opposition to the proposed appointment x x x shall within 10 days thereafter, appoint as members those whom he determines to be suitable therefor x x x. (Sec. 399)

For the past several years, this procedure has not been properly implementated. Obviously, the nonimplementation is caused by legal ignorance of those who are/were duty-bound to do it. Thus, the legal consultants of the City College of Manila are correct in proposing that barangay leaders should undergo paralegal training—preparatory to “citizens’ education.” The “citizens’ education” program is desiged to make individuals know their rights and obligations. It is one of the objectives of The Manila Times Institute for Paralegal Training. Such a program has made Canada peaceful and prosperous.

Our advice is for you to lodge a complaint against the barangay leaders who have not taken any action on your complaint with the Department of Interior and Local Government.

With respect to your husband, you can formally charge him criminally for concubinage with the Office of the City/Provincial Prosecutor. If he married his concubine, charge him with bigamy. You could also, of course, seek refuge in the law on Violence Against Women and Children. What is imperative is that you act fast so that you can finally do something about your philandering husband and you can go on with your life in a more positive direction.

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I wish to congratulate the newly elected officers of the Malate Rotary Club, headed by Ms. Mercy Ong.

Having answered my call for their active participation in the administration of justice, it seems that they are more than willing to be part of that journey towards peace. The Rotarians of Malate have signified their intention to undergo paralegal training at The Manila Times, in order to lead a crusade to make the people more aware of their rights and obligations.

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Above all things, let us reflect on the following statement of our Lord and Master Jesus Christ: “If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow Me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will save it. What profit is there for one to gain the whole world yet lose or forfeit himself?” (Luke 9:23-25)

esmabutas@yahoo.com

   
 

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