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Posted on Wednesday, October 15, 2003

 

Young Filipinos getting hooked on cybersex

By Annie Ruth C. Sabangan, Senior Reporter

(Part 2)

HOW many Filipino young adults are getting hooked on cybersex chatting, just “Ted,” “Mark,” Joey” and  “Cindeejerkee”?

So far, no statistical study has been made that would be alarming enough to merit attention and scrutiny of online cybersex, pornography and prostitution in the Philippines.

A survey done by AC Nielsen Philippines last year only described the country’s Internet population as “urban, young and sophisticated.”

Internet usage, mostly chatting, e-mail and surfing, is prevalent in the younger age group according to the market research company.

Of the total estimated 1.5 million Filipinos that had used the Internet, half of which are in Metro Manila, AC Nielsen noted that 45 percent are aged 12-19 years old; 36 percent are under the age bracket of 20-29; 30-39 years old comprise 12 percent while the age bracket of 40-60 represents 8 percent.

The survey showed that half of those with Internet access belong to the A-C classes or the upper and middle economic strata, though class D users, who mostly access Internet from cafes and schools, are also increasing.

Local online cybersex: Getting into the mainstream?

To get the bigger picture and also the specifics on Filipino online cybersex activities and other Internet usage that have to do with sex, prostitution and pornography, The Times last month conducted an informal survey by visiting and participating in chatrooms and e-mail sex groups frequented mostly by local Internet users.

If the Yahoo!Messenger’s Philippine regional chatrooms would be used as basis, it isn’t hard to conclude that Filipino online cybersex activities are getting into the mainstream.

For the last three weeks of September, The Times visited Filipino chatrooms within the Yahoo!Messenger and was able to list a total of 48 chatrooms with sexually explicit room names out of the average of 100 chatrooms that appear daily on Yahoo!’s “user room” for the Philippines.

These 48 rooms, as their names suggest, are engaged in sexually explicit activities—where chatters are either into twaddling, heavy flirting, cybersex, voyeurism or nude shows. Young women often strip and at times men masturbate on Internet web cameras. 

The 48 rooms could be categorized into six types: rooms for heterosexuals, rooms for voyeurs, rooms for gays, rooms where women act as sex kittens, rooms for lesbians, and rooms where the subject is teen sex.

Heterosexual sites or those that are for the opposite sex have the most number of sex rooms (21 rooms), followed by rooms for voyeurs, 10; gay rooms, 8; rooms where women play up as sex kittens, 4; rooms for lesbians, 3 and teen sex rooms, 2.

Though categorized into types, the chatrooms are visited by mixed groups. For instance, male chatters also visit lesbian rooms. 

It is also worth noting that while several local chatrooms have names that sound wholesome or even religious, sex often remains the topic of conversation.

This only goes to show that chatrooms cannot be characterized based on their names alone. Occasionally, chatrooms are not composed of homogeneous groups. There are instances when some chatrooms can be considered melting pots—composed of various kinds of visitors with different motives.

At least 1,320 Pinoys daily are into cybersex at Yahoo!

Not all of the sex chatrooms, however, appear daily on Yahoo!Messenger. On the average, only 33 rooms regularly appear on the site.

Each chat room at Yahoo!Messenger can accommodate only up to 40 chatters. The Times’ survey showed that day-in and day-out, most, if not all, of the 33 local chatrooms are full—which goes to show that on the average, there are 1,320 individuals who chat daily in Yahoo!’s local cybersex rooms.

This figure could become bigger since visitors exiting the room are continuously being replaced by other guests.

Due to the anonymous character of Internet chatting where anybody could assume different identities, it would be difficult to determine the age brackets of the chatters. Taking into account AC Nielsen’s survey, it can be deduced that most chatters belong to the younger age group who are within the upper- and middle-class economic strata.

Again taking cue from AC Nielsen’s survey, it is possible that cybersex activities have spread among individuals who belong to Class D.

This is indicated by the brisk business of affordable computer and Internet rental shops in Metro Manila. One of the biggest shops in Quezon City, with 40 computers for rent and charges P20 per hour of Internet use, is always full of customers. Ten of the 40 units are inside cubicles that have web cameras. Even during midnights and until dawn, the cubicles are always fully occupied, males, are often seen engaging in sex chats.

Heterosexuals, males and gays

The gender of the chatters is hard to ascertain. Many of them switch roles. Males introduce themselves as females, females act out as males. Men assumed to be gays, most of the time, pretend to be women. 

Judging from the number of cybersex rooms visited by most chatters, it appears that the preference for sex chatmates are highest in rooms for heterosexuals or opposite sex.

Based on chat participations of The Times in various cybersex rooms, it appeared that most chatters are males hunting for female chatmates.

Within three weeks of engaging in chatting and visiting Internet cafés in Quezon City, The Times found out that at least seven out of 10 chatters, especially in the most indecent (or shall we say hard core) rooms, are males.

Cherrie Joy F. Billedo, a psychology instructor at the University of the Philippines in Quezon City, recently did a seminal study on the role of Internet relay chats (IRCs) in the formation of interpersonal attraction and romantic relationships. 

While cybersex activities were not the focus of Billedo’s study, she found out nonetheless, just like The Times’ findings at Yahoo!Messenger, that male chatters dominate “X” channels at IRCs.

Especially during midnights, male chatters visit these rooms and look forward to seeing girls strip on the web cam. When there are no nude shows, men often get bored and cajole their female chatmates to reveal their bare essentials.

If you are a female chatter and want to displease your male chatmates, flirt for as long as possible. When the men are already falling for you, inviting you to a one-on-one, private cybersex on web cam, tell them you worry about something. When they ask what you “worry” about, drop the bomb: tell them you fear that your pen’s could be bigger than theirs.

Sure enough, you will receive verbal invectives. Most Filipino male chauvinists in sex chatrooms loathe gay chatmates.

Top Pinoy sex channels host 400 sex chatters daily. The other popular chat program used by Filipinos for chatting is MIRC. Like Yahoo Messenger, MIRC is an Internet relay chat (IRC) engine allowing people all over the world to engage in real-time conversations.

Like Yahoo!Messenger, MIRC is where one can find an overdose of sex talk, sleaze and silly chatter.

Aside from the usual cybersex activities, many chatters at MIRC, the moment they log on the channel, look out for chatmates in their area, who are ready for “SEB” (sex eyeball, which means personally for sex)—twosome, threesome or orgy.

Others look for someone who could volunteer his or her place for SEB. When two or three people agree for a SEB, they exit the big chatrooms used for meeting prospects and enter a private chatroom where they feel free to talk about when and where they will have SEB.

Others ask for SOPs (sex on phone) or look for strangers who are willing to exchange nude photos. Some invite fellow visitors to view porno websites and sex chatrooms. Some visitors post their cell phone numbers so they can easily be contacted for real, casual sex.

Unlike Yahoo!Messenger’s room limit of 40 individuals, MIRC’’s rooms (they’re usually called channels) depend on the operator who created the channel.

The six most famous Pinoy chatrooms at MIRC are #kantutan, #bi-manila, #manila sex, #pinoy sex, #seb and #libog. On the average, these six chatrooms host 400 sex chatters daily. 

Chat room or channel #kantutan had the most chatters. Even at daytime, it has more than 100 visitors. At the time The Times visited the channels, on a Friday night the number of visitors reached 146—most of whom were looking for “SEB” mates who happened to be in the same city or province.

Channel “#kantutan,” based on XGoogle, another IRC search engine, is maintained and spread as a channel by at least four Internet networks—ChatX, Talkpinoy, Philchat and Irctoo. Under each network are several servers that contain and that could spread the channel on the Internet.

Channel #bi-manila, often visited by gays, ranked second. On a weeknight, The Times found a total of 114 chatters on the channel. This room appears to attract college students. Many chatters said they were students at this and that university and wanted to meet “SEB” chatmates from other universities.

Chatroom #manila sex was third with a total of 95 chatters followed by #pinoysex, 31; #seb, 5 and #libog, 7.

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